6 Not-So-Difficult Ways To Get Out of That Funk

August 16, 2012 — 9 Comments

It might be post-vacation haze. It could be because summer just isn’t “normal routine.” I could even say it’s the summer heat. Whatever my excuse, it’s time for me to get out of that funk I’ve been in.

It might be time for you to get out of that funk too.

The definition at Dictionary.com for funk is simply this: a dejected mood. For whatever oddball reason, some days we all wake up in that exact frame of mind. For some of you (myself included) that funk comes in spurts and can stick around for days at a time or even longer.

Whether it has been a day, a week, or a season, here are 6 not-so-difficult ways to get out of that funk:

  1. Be present and in-the-moment with those who matter most. For many of you, this will be your spouse and/or children. I love coming home and being gleefully greeted at the end of the hall by my 42 pound, 3 year old Caleb, (a.k.a. “Daddy’s Little Tank”). Then, as he throws his arms in the air, he more or less aims himself in my general direction and starts running. He’d better be all that matters to me in those next few precious moments if for no other reason than I am all that matters to him. Yeah… that’ll help you get out of that funk.
  2. Read subject matter you don’t normally read. Admittedly, it’s been too long since I’ve simply lost myself in a good story but I’m doing this right now, in fact. I recall one such time in Bible college when I just had to put down the three or four textbooks I had on the go for the one course I was in and picked up a good, ‘ol Tom Clancy standard, The Sum of All Fears as I recall.
  3. Be deliberate with your break time at work. If you’re anything like me, if you’re not careful, you could potentially go through the entire workday without taking any significant break, even for lunch, adding to the stressful funk you’re already in. That’s not healthy. A while ago, I started to include timers with audible reminders into my work process. I use a free desktop app called Focus Booster (Mac OS X or Windows). It’s really helped me out. I encourage you to check it out or look at something similar. An old-fashioned kitchen timer may be all you need.
  4. Get some rest! Having previously posted (a guest post actually) about this topic, I won’t belabour the point. You know when you’re not getting enough rest. Most people require at least 7 hours per night consistently; some need 9 or 10. This doesn’t just pile on to your funk but is a good principle to follow overall.
  5. Return to your faith roots. Undoubtedly the most systemic problem for me happens when I allow myself to begin to wander aimlessly in my faith walk. As a Christian, missionary, and minister, there is no greater task I have than joyfully aligning my behaviour with my belief. Simply stated, my walk better match my talk. It is because of my faith that everything else in my life has meaning. I’ve heard it said that you can’t minister out of an empty well, so I make a point of deliberately refilling it regularly. This has pulled me out of a funk more times than I can remember. Outside of what I think about Jesus and then do as a result, nothing I do, say, or think will leave any lasting impression. Nothing.
  6. For goodness sake… do something fun! Take a walk around the block… twice. Go for a run on the beach. Grab some friends and go play Frisbee at the park. Whatever you consider to be a fun activity, go and do it. At the very least, change your position… literally. Your physiology affects your mood. For extra points, combine this with one or more of the above.

Like I said, it’s just about time for me to get out of my funk. I have been or will be doing all of the above.

I’m just about there… join me?

What did I miss? What not-so-difficult ways do you have to get out of your funk?

  • http://www.firehorseinc.ca/ Carol G.

    I had this exact conversation with a colleague earlier this week. She told me that she spends a bit of time writing a recommendation for a connection on LinkedIn. It takes her our of her “self” and does something good for someone else. I think anything that makes you get out of yourself and do some good for someone else is a sure-fire way to ditch the funk fast.

    • http://www.charlielyons.ca/ Charlie Lyons

       Carol, I LOVE that suggestion. This definitely fits in here with this list. Thanks for commenting!

  • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

    Great ways to get out of a funk. I found taking a walk or quick nap(Not at the same time:) can really refocus and give me a spark of energy.  Great suggestions.

    • http://www.charlielyons.ca/ Charlie Lyons

       lol, if you can master the walk-nap, you’d better patent it because I think it might be worth a fortune to you. ;-)

      Thanks for commenting, Dan.

      • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

         It would save time to be able to walk while napping, I don’t think I’ll ever master that one. So I’ll just do one or the other:)

        Your welcome.

  • http://smartchurchmanagement.com/ Patricia Lotich

    Ya I’ve kind of learned that funks come and go and the sooner I recognize what it is the sooner I can take actionable steps to get out of it.  Funks are no fun!

    • http://www.charlielyons.ca/ Charlie Lyons

       The sooner the better indeed, Patricia. Thanks for your comment.

  • Dawn

    These are wonderful ways to beat that funk!! I also like to use music at times, especially the kind that is upbeat and just seems to tap your feet for you :) . I’ve also gone to shelters and programs and helped others. That is quite a perspective changer.

    • http://www.charlielyons.ca/ Charlie Lyons

      Yes, those are also some great ideas! Thanks for adding to the list. BTW, I read just yesterday a story of a GREAT perspective changer… I’ve included it in today’s Links to Live Deliberately post… it’s the one by Jeremy Statton. AMAZING story.

      Thanks again for commenting. :-)